this guy said once to me ''if i would stand up for him'', i was like no! we are not in a relationship, second you are a MAN! if anything you should stand up for yourself and for me and then i will have your back! i mean what if you date the guy but he is too afraid what people think of him... i think that is a turnoff, its a man job to protect his wife and family! and ofcourse teach and lead the woman. Why are men wussies these days? he seemed like the type who was afraid to take risks and wanted a woman to be ''the man and the wife'' and mother him.
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You lost almost an entire generation when we stupidly listened to women in the 1970s and 1980's, when they insisted that they wanted men to be more effeminate, in touch with their emotions, less likely to be aggressive take-charge leadership types and so on.
We listened, it turned out (surprise) that women were not attracted to this "new man" type they said they wanted, and almost an entire generation of men had to be re-educated in what women want. (Which is not what they say they want.)3