If your starting a LDR (dating) how often would /should you call each other?
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Okay, this varies between couples. Were you dating before it became long distance (like high school sweethearts now going off to college) or is this how the entire relationship starts (met someone online who lives far away).
If you are starting a new relationship then you have to take it slowly. The answer for some couples would be "talk everyday," but if you're just starting out that might be a little much, lol.
It also depends on your schedules. I once dated this guy (actually, we weren't even in a relationship, we went on 2 dates, but that's another story lol) and he got mad at me because I wouldn't call him. Well, he worked during the day and I had classes at night. When I finished classes I did homework and was tired. I physically wasn't able to talk to him on the phone on weekdays.
So that's why it varies per couple. Some people would say text every day, but some people aren't able to text while at work (teachers can't be texting you during school hours, they're teaching!). So for some couples it's better to call each other at night. For some they will text every day and then video chat on weekends. Someone who works or is super busy on weekends won't be able to set up a video chat.
One of the reasons LDRs fail is simply because it's hard to figure out when to talk! So this is definitely something that you have to work through with your partner.0