Ok so there's this guy who I'm pretty sure likes me. He invited me to subway with him after practice one day (I know this sounds stupid but when you're a swimmer subway after practice is the best thing anyone could do for you) and he also high fives me or puta his arm on my shoulder when he sees me and asks me how I am. One time he also had me squirt his water into his mouth (I was told that meant a guy liked you I don't know if it's true). There's only one problem: he's a senior and my mom doesn't trust him. She forbids me to go anywhere with him and she says I shouldn't get and the car with him (he doesn't drink or anything don't worry she just doesn't trust him). I really like this guy and I want something to happen. So mext time he asks me to go somewhere should I go against my mom and say yes and be a little sneaky? Or should I try to convince her more that it's ok and he will be safe with me. She also thinks I will get a bad rep if I date him even though he isn't the player type. What do I do?
Should I date this guy and go against my parents?
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Your mom has always looked out for you. She has also been around a lot longer and has seen a lot of people. She knows who is good and bad a lot better than you would. Trust her and her instincts. Even if she is wrong, which I doubt, younwill hurt your relationship with her. You will be with her for many, many years to come and that guy will only be around for a small fraction of that time. Listen to mom.0
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You squirt water in his mouth? That means you like him. Him high 5 you and put his arm around you? Subway? Dont friends do that? Lol I say introduce him to your mom. Because mothers do have more dating experience.0
You might think this is a stupid advice but why don't you ask him what he thinks about it?
I had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend.
Maybe you could even arrange a meeting if you manage to convince your mother into it.
Talking with each other is a very powerful tool.0
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