I'm 26 and he's 30. I've never slept with anyone before and I'm so nervous to tell the guy I've been seeing.
I have always been a career woman and never dated much and just haven't had the experience. I've been seeing him for a month. I'm not at all religious so I'm not waiting for that reason. I just wanted to really like a guy to do it with him. Now that it's getting to that point, how do I actually come out and say I've never had sex without it being weird or awkward or so blunt. How far in advance do I tell him?
Please help me! Everything is going great except I'm dreading having this conversation. I don't want him to think I'm weird or unusual for never having done it. I also don't want him to think that this is some huge deal in the sense that I will automatically be in love with him and forever attached. I know guys are worried when girls take sex with them for the first time as being an overly-emotional attachment. I just want to have sex with someone I like, but don't want him to think it's weird or freak out that I'm a virgin.
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I imagine you're probably more freaked out about it than he would be. Ease into it, start slowly, even with sexual stuff.
I don't know, I guess it wouldn't hurt to tell him "I've never done this before", but if you make it a big deal, it's going to be a big deal, you know? If you tell him, let him know that you're ready, and that you know it's what you want.0