So me and my fbw met at an anonymous app June of last year and after 3 months of all day everyday texting and calls i fell for him and i had let him know. Im married and he knows it too i never lied to him but after 3 months he decided to date someone else i was so hurt but since we had an agreement that he can date whenever he choose to i let him go :( then November he said he got dumped and we got back again he said that I'm special and he missed me but he said that he don't love me more than a friend but when we spend time in bed we are so connected and he never pulled out but he said its because i have birth control but we also kissed while he is inside me filling me up and that was his request. Now my real question is for the guys when will i know for sure that my friends with benefits see me more than just a fuck buddy?
- he is just using me100% (2)80% (4)86% (6)Vote
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Well, I'm not a guy but thought you'd like my opinion. What has happened to your marriage?
I think that is the trouble with friends with benefits arrangements - the guys seem not to get emotionally attached but girls often do. I think the only way you have any chance of turning this into more is if you stop sleeping with him and tell him you can't do it anymore as you have deeper feelings for him. He may decide he's willing to offer you more but he may also not be willing to offer you more - but unless you do something I doubt he's going to see it as anything other than friends with benefits .0