He was moving way too fast for me so I backed away and haven't made any contact and he is wondering why. The first night he was practically saying I was "the one" and making plans 6 months in advance! By the 3 night, he said I love you! And the 3rd week, he wanted to move in together... what the hell!. SO I didn't just slow it down, I halted it! IS that bad, or were these good warning flags to get out?
Should I give him another chance after he moved extremely fast?
What Guys Said 1
If and only if you think you can calm him down. And get him to see/understand.. How you feel.. His action was a direct reaction from his feelings. Rather than taking time to process it all.. He let it all out.. Essentially bypassing any common since. If you really like him. And judging by the question its self. You do. Then try to explain your self, and how you feel about the situation..
If he responds well. Then you can take it from there. Including boundaries that he must follow. If he does not respond well.. Like continues with the things he was saying before. Then you should probably not give another chance... I would suggest to start slow. Maybe messages. E-mail something to that nature. This way.. It will give him the time to think about these things before he responds. And also. you can simply, stop. If you feel it's not going any further. or not hearing what you have to say.
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