I feel incredibly stupid even asking but I'm going for it anyway... ;) This guy is incredibly hard to read. He seems really cautious around me; I feel perhaps it's a defense mechanism from getting too close to me. We definitely have a connection; both intellectual and an intense physical attraction. The other night he sent me a song he sang and played on his guitar; just a short clip of a romantic song. I loved it of course. But then the next day he was "liking" some other girl's photos (innocent photos, i. e. no bikini shots or anything sexual in nature).
Am I reading too much into his "liking" her photos? I feel like he let down his guard in a big way by singing to me (he's a pretty guarded person) and I made sure to let him know how appreciative I was... Am I just being too much of a girl here? lol
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Oh yes, a guy singing to you? He definitely likes you! I wouldn't jump to any conclusions about him liking another girl's photo yet. She could be a friend, acquaintance, etc. Also, under normal conditions, a man who is very guarded is currently in what I call "observation" mode. Find out why he is so guarded if you can. Also, try to increase your interest by flirting or showing more attention. If he likes it, then gradually increase it. If he does not, then back off for a while. Cautious men tend to be complex, if nothing else just be patient! One way of looking at it, is my dealings with shy or very insecure girls. You have to patient with them since they tend to be more cautious. The man may not be shy or insecure but just very security prone... Sorry about the long answer :P1