How do I get a boyfriend?
Is it easy or is it hard?
Will I be alone forever?
I'm just wondering😒
Most Helpful Guy
You don't just get a significant other. Best way to maximize your chances? Build your identity. Emotionally strengthen. Develop self-love. Become the best version of yourself. Don't conform to societal ideals, but do become who you want to be. On the outer side, work on your social skills. Practice making friends and talking to people in a friendly and engaging way. Get involve in clubs and activities.
Above all, aim to become secure and comfortable in your own skin. You want to be you and no one else.
Strive to have patience and enjoy being single in the mean time. Flourish in your freedom and independence. When the circumstances line up, eventually you are likely to meet someone that you click with.
Oh and it's normal to feel insecure, anxious, confused, etc at times. Don't beat yourself up over it. Just allow yourself to have these feelings when they come and don't suppress them. But at the basic level, you should strive to be fairly secure.
Develop a positive attitude. Minimize stress. Live in the moment as much as you can.
Your goal should be to live the most fulfilling life, not the easiest life most devoid of pain and struggle. Force yourself out of your comfort zone. You have one life; live it to its full potential.3
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