He is the one asking when he is going to see me next but I'm really confused with his actions we don't really text that much as I think it bores us unlike before we date we text every minute but now it takes longer for him to reply, I'm hurt that I can't ask him what's wrong. And silently crying at night and pretend I'm alright but deep inside I got a lot of questions and thoughts of stopping myself dating him at some point.
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What is he your manager?
You don't ask someone what YOUR rekationship status is.
1 bc it puts him on the spot he has no idea what you want just bc you ask him what he wants.
2 it's not his decision where you want things to go, it's your decision. And it's not his decision where the relationship goes its both of yours.
If you're not ready to talk about it then don't.
If you're ready then just tell him what you want and see how he feels. You either both want the same thing or you don't. If you plan on sticking around if he's not ready then I'd just wait to tell him bc might as well give it time for him to get on board.
If you pls. In breaking up with him if he's nit on the same page then tell him asap so you can get on with your life if he says no.2
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