So this may be a little long but I'll try to keep it short.
So I met this guy at a wedding, he was super sweet, and we talked the whole wedding (not super into dancing with strangers, especially when my parents are there) but any way, at the end of the night he asked if he could follow me on Twitter (I was a little put off but I think he was nervous) but then he friended me on Facebook, and he messaged me for my number so I gave it to him. This was back in the beginning of October.
He texts me every single day, even the holidays. Never fails. he's 23 and lives about an hour away from me, and he's out of school and working. I'm 20, a sophomore in college, and in a sport that has kept me busy just about every weekend. We have only been on three dates.
The first one we just went to a movie, he drove up to see me, picked me up, and payed for everything. Then he just dropped me off and that was it.
The next date he came over and we watched movies in my dorm. We went out to get food and he payed then too. He ended up sleeping over, and we just cuddled, we didn't kiss or hug at the end of the date or anytime during it. We did hold hands though.
The third date was this weekend. He wasn't picking up on my hints when I was telling him I'm free, so finally I just asked if he wanted to do something. He said sure, and I actually ended up going to see him this time. We hung out watched a movie, then his roommate came home, and his roommates girlfriend came over. We ended up playing this board game and turned it into a drinking game and I ended up getting pretty drunk not like sloppy tho, so was this guy. I felt kind of awkward but I guess it was implied that I would be sleeping over (I wasn't close to being able to drive home. Anyways we ended up cuddling again, he was a little more I guess affectionate, he held me closer than last time. But we still haven't kissed or even hugged. I can't tell if he's not interested or just being a gentleman.
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If he wasn't interested I would think that he wouldn't want to keep going out. Maybe he's just being a gentleman. And the most recent time it sounds to me like he didn't want to do anything because it could be like taking advantage f the fact that you were drinking. Maybe you could make the first move :)3