I've been getting back into dating girls as well as regularly chatting with a good female friend (she was the one who broke my lengthy anxiety towards girls, thanks to her wanting to chat with me at times lol). I was thinking that I've never felt the chemistry with any girl in my life, both in the past and present. I was asking around what chemistry felt like and they couldn't explain well, just a sense of comfortable connection. Somehow it suddenly came to me that I did feel the chemistry with one of the girls I knew within the past couple of years. It was a good, slightly fuzzy feeling and she complimented me big time as well. I also have felt good around my friend that I chat with regularly, but not fuzzy.
Have you guys felt the same, like a warm, good fuzzy feeling that leads to thinking you could have sex with that person? Can it also just feel good without the fuzzy feeling? That female friend was leaning towards me in a couple of pics as well.
Even though I'm a bit over 35, it's finally about time I figured some things out. Makes me more confident too.
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it sounds like you're fairly new to this dating game. That fuzzy feeling so to speak doesn't really feel the same to everyone. Sometimes you get a feeling of butterflies in your stomach, I mean you never know how your body is going to react to the feeling of whatever emotion you feel towards her. So I guess for that reason my opinion may or may not be valid or necessary. and my opinion is this if it feels good it can't be too too bad, and so you should go for what's good and leave your options open. Also, do not use other peoples feelings to judge your own.0