I've told white lies to my boy friend several times and he has caught me so i can understand why the trust really isn't there
we got into a fight the other day over deleting a fb a message and i denied it when it wasn't the truth n he's demanding the truth this time. i can't tell him because i know that will ruin our relationship. last night when he was talking to me about it i stuck to my story after an hour of arguing we had sex i asked him if he loved me n he said yes but right after we were finished he was still about it n he told me to go home n think clearly n message him when i got home i msgd him the usual good night n i got nothing back. im so confused as to if he was still upset why did he want to have sex with me. i dont understand what is going through his head.
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He probably had sex with you because he's upset and he's trying t feel better about the situation. Was the Facebook message a cheating one? If so, you should probably evaluate how you truly feel on the relationship. He is probably worried that you are cheating, and I think he has a right to be if you've been lying and deleting messages. If you're doing things that will ruin the relationship, you should ask yourself how much you care for the relationship in the first place. If you do truly care about the relationship, you need to be honest and get it all out and then let the chips fall where they may, he deserves honesty- just as you would deserve from him if the situation were flipped. If you want a good relationship with him, you need to be honest and stop doing things that risk hurting the relationship so you all can build your trust back.0