Our relationship is still relatively new (2 months) and we really don't talk about much in terms of each other. I want to learn so much about him, but I've always had issues with communication and getting to know people. I'm just always afraid of rejection and/or intruding in their personal lives. At 2 months, I just feel I should know a little more about him than I do. Help? Also, how can I spice up our conversations a bit?
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If you both are in the beginning stages of baby steps in 'Our relationship' that is a newbie, with 'We really don't talk about much in terms of each other,' that could very well be a Start of a problem that could lead down a beaten path.
Open lines of convo is one of the most important factors in any new or old relationship here, dear. And of course, he is still wet behind the ears in years yet so this could be his reason of the season that you are having right now.
Start talking about Your own interests, something he may find interesting. Then slowly feel him out and find out where he stands as far as getting Info out of him about talking about himself. If he is hesitant, closed mouth like a clam, then this will tell me that you are either going to have to do all the Initiating and just let his---Semi Silence be this golden goose, hoping the relationship won't tarnish along the way.
Good luck. xx0