I don't consider myself shallow, there are so many things to find attractive and sexy about someone besides looks, but i have been in a situation where I click so well with someone but I just can't be physically attracted to them. So what is shallow and what is just personal preference or your limit?
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You can't force yourself to feel attraction when there's just not any. Attraction is vital for any relationship.
I'd say personal preference only becomes shallow if you're being unrealistic. Obviously someone can't be completely 100% perfect and one needs to understand that concept. But it's not shallow if you reject someone because you know that deep down you don't find them attractive. There's no way around it. At some point, it will catch up with you. You should date someone who you feel attraction towards otherwise you're just wasting your time and kidding yourself.2
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