So, before my boyfriend and I ever started to date, I told him that I would never live with a man unless I was married to him. Well, we've been dating for about 8 months now, and have discussed living together. But now I'm having second thoughts. I want to tell him, but I don't want him to think I'm going back on my word, or have let anyone influence me. It was our original plan anyway in the first place. To not live together until after marriage. So... yes I can just easily explain and tell him... but, any suggestions?
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Be strait forward with him! If not you wi most likely regret you decision and it will cause problems in the relationship. If he loves and respects you he will understand. Especially since you have made your self clear before. And for you.. Try to stick to your decision. You sound like you make smart decisions to start. don't second guess your self. And you will find you won't be in this situation.0