Yesterday I went out on a first date with a guy that I ended up liking very much. At the end of the date we ended up kissing. He later texted me to tell me how the rest of his day had gone. Since then I hadn't heard anything from him. I didn't put much thought into it. Around 7pm.. I get a call from a female telling me she was his girlfriend!! She told me she saw our text messages because he had left his "computer" open. She also said that she knew we went out on a date. She said he has been calling her like crazy today. She told me he has been having unprotected sex with other women and that he's a maniac and that I am not the only one he's been with. Which is offensive because I hadn't even had sex with him. She then told me she has been with him for several years and that they're trying to get back together through couples therapy. Information overload!! Would explain why he hadn't texted me all day! He told me he was single and that he had dumped his ex 4 months ago because things dwindled down. I haven't contacted him after this call from his apparent girlfriend. I haven't heard from him either. Do I leave it like this or let him know I was basically harassed by his "girlfriend"? Help!
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@Schnikies "The ruiner" Interesting. I went through this with an ex and it wasn't pretty. They were "broken up" his status was single she wasn't really a Facebook friend, deactivated account and never announced their relationship on FB. But he was still connected by doing certain things for her similar to him still getting his hair cut by her... Really? If he thinks she's crazy and they are broken up why continue to Associate yourself in anyway with her. She did the same thing because he had the same password and knew them and he wouldn't change them. If you really care why not change the password why give her so much access to your life... (Reading his texts) they are still invovled maybe not sexually but invovled is invovled and that only ruined the realationship. It creates bitter unnecessary tension that he should eliminate. My ex's ex stuck around for the two years I'd been dating him, for a while I thought she had been gone but she hadn't he text back "we're not together, but end up being there for her emotinally, or even finacially. She followed us in the mall and grocery stores. She started making blocked calls after most of her unblocked calls were ignored. The whole thing was a movie. She would tell me how horrible he was and why we shouldn't be together. I knew it was her way to try and scare me but ended up most of what she said was true about him and few things exaggerated truths. I stayed with him for so long to prove to her I could have him and she couldn't stop us. Too bad what she said was true about him. Still a lot to deal with that I wouldn't go through again. Good Luck! Motto: "if you're not done with the ex, you're not ready for the next"0