I'm going to ask a friend out. I'm pretty sure we like each other.. I guess I'll find out. I'm choosing a date instead of just hanging out ( though im fine just hanging out) bc I want him to say yes he's interested or no he's not I intersted. Do I know for sure where I stand. Hanging out is too nebulous for that purpose.
Anyhow I've never been on a date so Id like some ideas:)
Oh while I'm here what is too soon for her to break the touch barrier? Simple touching not anything sexual. And do you have a preference for the type of touch?
Sorry if these questions sound dumb... Just trying to get oriented with some information.
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Since it is a first date between the two of you, AND your first date ever, I would suggest a date in which you would be able to talk freely and change your "personal zone" as circumstances indicate. That would usually be best in the summer when you can be outdoors doing various activity where you can talk. Obviously a movie or anything like that is not the place to talk. Too bad it is winter.
A meal or just a coffee gives you the opportunity to be looking at each other talking in a warm place. You can decide while there what to do next. It could be a movie. You would not be able to talk much, but if you seem to be hitting it off then contact is normal, like wrapping your arm around his or putting you head on his shoulder. If you still wanted to talk or were not sure about the touching yet, you could go for a walk. If it is too cold out, go to a mall. Not a likely date destination, but if you two wanted to talk more you can walk there and talk all you want. Also the opportunity to hold hands or lock arms, even the possibility of his arm around your shoulders.
It really does not take long to find out if some touching is okay. Quite normal on a first date that is going well.1