He's and adult with a job, can have his own home/flat and doesn't have any money issue but he's living with his parents because he wants to take care of them and emotionally attached to them. Would you date that guy?
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Some girls will and some girls won't. It's partly understandable if she doesn't but only if she herself doesn't live with her parents. If the girl lives with her parents and won't date a guy who does (which happens a lot) she is not worth dating and is only looking to use a guy for what he as and not date him for who he is.
With that said, if she lives on her own I feel she has a right to prefer dating a guy who doesn't as well. She may not wish to deal with potential curfews and being stuck dealing with a parent's rules around the house and all that stuff. I know from experience how annoying it is dating a girl who lives with her parents. Many parents are overbearing.
Just be sure to look for the reasons why she won't date a guy who lives with her parents. If she just gives generic nonsense answers that don't really explain why, then she's just looking to use a guy for material gain. Many girls look for guys with places and slowly "move in" by leaving small things behind until they eventually just don't go home or if they do, only go home once a week and such. It can start with a sleepover then suddenly she leaves a toothbrush there and some clothes and within a few months suddenly she's getting dresser and closet space. In reality, they don't care about the guy at all and just want to get away from their parents.
In your case it sounds like you're taking care of family. If your situation is that you're taking care of relatives who may have a condition or are really old, they should see that. If anything, consider it an opportunity that allows you to get to know a mature woman who will see the positive things of your situation (caring for family, being supportive, etc). This will also weed out the girls who would potentially just be leeching off of you. Those girls typically look for instant gratification so if they see that they'll have to actually put effort into a relationship with you they won't be interested.1