Says she's fine but we can't see each other right now Because of her parents. Been like this for a while. She would cry everytime she left my house. Said she's never been this happy in her life and only I can do that to her.
We're moving in together soon and she's choosing me over her family can tell it's killing her. I always ask her what her parents are saying is there a lot of pressure at home etc . She says she's fine and everything is good.
Not putting any pressure on her about the choice and have her every option to back out. I don't know how to help her. She shuts down and kind of shuts me out right now. last thing I want to so is bombard her with text and calls.
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Have you ever talked with her openly? In your mind, you are giving space, but does she know it?
I think communication is important. You can't help her in this way. Be open. Say her she has to decide. No need to get offended. I personally think it is not great to choose one over another. They are her family, forever.
She has to find a mid way. And she has to keep her self cool.
Be with her when she needs.0