Let me start off with this... I'm not attractive... at all. I remember when I was younger I'd just be sitting outside my house and girls would comment sqying how ugly I was. Don't say looks don't matter bc we all know it does. You wouldn't dqte a guy you don't find attractive at all. It's seriously discouraging when you know you'll probably end up living by yourself for the rest of your life. It's so unfair how some guys can just walk in a room and all eyes are on him and guys like me get disgusted looks. What did I do to end up like this? It's not fair. Honestly I'd rather step out as soon as possible than to live alone for the rest of my life. What can I possibly do?
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What it comes down to is the fact that 'beauty' is an entirely social construct. Just look up "the ideal man through the ages". Just because you don't think you're attractive, and some horrible girls told you you were ugly doesn't mean its true. I was told i was the 'ugly duckling' growing up, by my whole family. I never really changed in terms of the way i looked, but I stopped caring, and started trying to like myself for things like, my cheekbones, the colour of my eyes and the fact that in my opinion i'm fucking hilarious.
I've been in 16 relationships, and am currently dating the guy i had a crush on all through secondary school. You're not going to be alone. People really aren't as shallow as you think. And to be completly honest (if i a little cheesy) Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
Now repeat after me, I DON'T CARE WHAT SOCIETY THINKS OF ME. I AM A GREAT HUMAN BEING, AND ANYONE WHO CAN'T SEE ME FOR THE BEAUTIFUL PERSON I AM DOES NOT DESERVE MY PEACE OF MIND.0