I had got some booty call offers from the guys who tell me that they just want a physical relationship only. They don't want to date me. I had kept turning them down and said "no" because I want more than a physical relationship. Some of them would tell me that I have some major issues just because I won't sleep with them. My ex-boyfriend is one of those guys who want to keep me on the side for a booty call while he stay married to his crazy insecure wife. I had told him that I am not going to be second to his crazy wife. I won't settle for less with any guys who don't want to date me. Do I have some major issues just because I want more than a physical relationship?
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Petitemissy,... them telling you that YOU have issues b/c you won't give them your body every time they want it is like a car salesman calling me a jerk b/c I won't buy one of his cars.
Are they really serious!?! I think if anyone ever said this too me I would laugh at them.
I am a very physical personal,.. and my girl knows (thankfully, she is too). But really the best stuff, is the non-physical part of the relationship. There is nothing wrong with wanting that.
Honestly,... stop talking to these losers. Be confident enough to pursue what you really want out of life,... and go get yourself a real man that won't try to make you compromise your self respect.
Best of luck.1