So, this girl more than threw herself at me and I wasn't ready and also distanced myself, and I guess cursed at her or whatever.
Now, she communicates with me, but it's like I'm absolutely no one to her. As a guy, I don't quite get the sudden drop in interest/attraction. Is it faked? Is it more that now I'm trying too hard to get her back into me that it comes off needy/unattractive. Why can't seem to get over stuff as easily as guys do?
*we never dated just hooked up three times.
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Well if you cussed at her than yeah you basically may've shattered some hopes there. She doesn't sound like the crazy type that likes to be talked to that way. It wouldn't be anything to spite you really it's just she's lost some interest in who she thinks you are. Subjecting herself to that all the time is not getting over things. That's accepting potential abuse. So she's equally rejecting you shutting you out little by little and that is getting over things easily.0