So I was at this club and met this really hot guy. He was funny and we danced a lot. I gave him my number.
He started getting very touchy. I told him straight up that I'm not going to sleep with him that night. He withdrew slowly, looked me in the eye, and said "watch this". He went up to another random girl, they started flirting, and then left the club together within 15 minutes.
He hasn't called me since.
Over the past fortnight, I saw him out with that girl twice. I think they're dating now? I don't know.
Is there any way I can get him back? Please help me, before it's too late.
Note: If you're wondering, I try not to be too easy when I meet a guy, as I don't know him, and also I don't want to come off as desperate. That's why I told him I wasn't going to bed with him that night.
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Oh for crying out loud. There are plenty of other men out there, who would probably respect you more than he does.
But to answer your question, if you wanted to get back in touch with him, do you have his number? Or did you just give your number hoping he'd call you? If you don't have his number, and since you seem to know where this guy hangs out (as you bumped into him twice), try and say hi to him if you see him again. Sure, the other girl might not like it. If he doesn't continue the conversation with you, then you know he's not interested in you, so forget about him. If you're brave enough, you can say "I'm still waiting for your missed call" lol - wouldn't recommend it though.
But seriously, move on. Plenty of guys out there.
Also, you might have learnt a lesson from this - hot guys (as you describe it) can get girls very easily. Often, many of them will have sex without hesitation. So if you want to stay in the game, you might have to forfeit your personal restrictions - but that's up for you to decide. These guys, my friend, are what people call douchebags.0