I have a crush on my co-worker and a couple of days ago was her last regular day at work/ her birthday so I decided to surprise her with a birthday cake and coffee. I think That part went well because she told me that "you certainly know what gifts to give a lady" and she showed everyone the cake that I got her.
However, when I was going home I decided to stop by her office and wish her good luck at her new work place but then I started mumbling and stammering all over the place :-/. I seriously couldnt even pronounce the word good luck cause I was so nervous lol.
I apologized to her and said sorry I'm stuttering and she said "aw it's ok, u have a good weekend ok?" Do you think I pretty much lost any chance I ever had of ever asking her out someday?
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If anything she was probably flattered when she saw how nervous you got around her. Definitely ask her out within the next week or two and maybe even try to make a joke of the last encounter you had. Say something like, "How would you like to get dinner sometime? I promise an evening of good conversation, not the nervous stammering from last time!" Make fun of yourself a little and she'll see that you're a smart, good-humoured guy who just got a little nervous. It's not a bad thing that you did - it likely let her know that you really do like her, and as I said I'm sure she was very flattered. Good luck :)1