a little background story first of all, around 4 months ago now I started seeing a girl who I met at a party now she lives around 150 miles away so is a long distance thing.
Now she's one of the most amazing girls I've met tbh, we get on soooo well and feel really comfortable round each other straight away, kinda weird feeling as never had that, I've been in love before but this just felt different.
Now just before the 2nd time, She texts me the night before and says she is going travelling away for a year and thought she best tell me now.
we both can't really fully commit to each other because she is leaving this year, in around 9 months time.
we have had some chit chats about it and she keeps blowing hot/cold with me and keeps saying we shouldn't see each other and just be friends. Now the first time she did this I was fine with it really, but then after a week or so she miss me she said and can't ignore feelings, so we carry this thing on.
she's now done this 3 times and each time it hurts a bit more because more feelings are involved. Now last weekend i was there and she did it again but we carry on with weekend anyway and turned out to be an amazing weekend and she say to me 'lets jus do this, we do make each other happy and there is obviously something there' so im all happy and say yes!
2 days later she acting weird again and says we jus cannot do this blah blah, so I go along with it and obviously a bit sad about it just say to her 'ok, lets jus not talk for a while and be friends' she tells me change my profile picture etc because she doesn't want to think about it.
Then she texting me the day after asking if im ok etc etc, I ignore these texts then get a call and we kinda sort it out and she says things got to intense too quick and she got overwhelmed by it all, then she says to carry it on but not be so intense,
Saturday she text me telling me to get the train to her but i didn't.
really Unsure of what to do? like this girl too a lot
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I want you to think very deeply about this. She sounds very high maintenance, messing around with both of your feelings, and she's soon moving away. Is it worth the pain? I don't think so. I also don't think it's right of her to be playing hot and cold with you so much. She may just like drama and the idea of a "forbidden romance", but I may be wrong. Please just think about it. Would you look at mine please? Thanks! www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1312996-was-it-more-about-me-or-the-parents1