I've been going on some dates with this guy. He's fun, and I enjoy being with him but there is just no spark for me. He really likes me and wants to be in a serious relationship with me but I see us as just being friends. How do I tell him without hurting his feelings?
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Basically say exactly what you just said here, and soon, before he gets in too deep. He might not want to maintain a friendship with you, or he might - but better that than end up being stuck in a relationship you don't want. It won't be good for either of you and much worse in the long run in terms of hurting his feelings.1