We went on a date and everything went great. Even he said so. He actually planned another date on the ride home from the first one. I texted him saying "I don't want to bother you but I'm a little confused now? If you don't want to talk to me, I'd rather you just tell me that then lead me on." His response was, "If you were bothering me, I would tell you. I'm busy with work. I go to work 7 days a week and I'm working 12 hours on nights. I am not trying to ignore you." But yet, he does ignore me. Why plan another date with me on the ride home if you have no interest in me? Wouldn't you want to just drop me off and roll out? I don't know what could have happened all of a sudden?
We went on a date and now he's being standoffish.. why?
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Well, here's the thing. If I took a girl out on a date and the first thing that she texted me afterward was what you wrote up there I would be thinking you were crazy. It was just one date. Just because he's interested in you and wants to go on another date doesn't mean it's a marriage proposal. He might have other girls that he's also taking out on dates and hasn't decided which one he likes best yet. I mean... without more information it's hard to determine what's really going on.0
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