This is probably more of an issue of respect and closure for me than anything else.
I was going out with a guy for a month. We were seeing each other about 2 times a week, talking every day and had a few sleep overs (not necessarily sex involved). All of a sudden, one night he cut a phone call short, then didn't respond to my text the next day, and then didn't return my phone call when I told him I was a little worried and asked if "everything was okay"
I'm guessing he doesn't want to pursue anything further. But he's also 34 years old and old enough to respect me enough to tell me it's over, not just stop responding.
Can I call him one more time in a few days to ask him to actually say that it's over without it seeming like I'm being weird stalking him?
Say something like: "I assume you're not interested in seeing me anymore, but please respect me enough to let me know. I'm okay with that, and I'm not going to keep calling you, but please just let me know if I'm right in assuming that".
It will most likely be a voice message, but for me, I feel like it will help me move on, instead of feeling disrespected.
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What a d*ck. I think you're being classy and taking the high road. That message sounds perfect. You go girl! Could you please answer one of mine? Thanks! www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1312996-was-it-more-about-me-or-the-parents www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1318936-is-it-normal-to-go-for-a-while-without-being-asked-out0