I am currently involved with a guy that I really like. I may actually love him but, I'm not sure yet. I want to be with him but I let my insecurities and ego get in the way. I believe we could be a power couple.
I lie to him to keep him from breaking my heart. I'm actually scared of him because he is far from what Im use to dating. I don't want to let him in and then he cuts me loose. I want to open up and be myself towards him.
Whenever I catch myself trying to I feel like a baby bird who wants to fly but gets cold feet when ever they look out their nest. I'm scared I'll fall and he won't catch me. I blame my past for me being like this now! I only lie to protect my heart.
So am I wrong for lying to him? Or am I bugging? Do I need to let my guard down? Should I confess to him as to why I'm so hard on him?
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Yes the lying is wrong. I don't know what you are lying about but creating any relationship around dishonesty is wrong. He deserves the truth and you are gonna have to deal with the consequences whatever they may be. I understand you have been hurt in the past but lying to someone you claim to care about will not make it better. If you truly want a better future and you want it with him then it is time to come clean and be honest with yourself and him.0