I'm a 19 year old guy who about a year and a half ago had a close family death and that combined with the stress of graduating got a severe case of TE, (a hair condition where hair diffusely thins, no bald spots but still over half thinned) normally this corrects itself but in my case it became permanent so I opted to shave my head to the skin. Truth be told I personally like it, low maintenance, no hat hair etc. and I wouldn't give two shits if I knew I could still attract a girl I find attractive, I'm just going to honestly say looks are a factor and a doorway to something more to me, and I'm not a hypocrite so I know looks will matter to the ladies as well. And truthfully one of my biggest goals was to be married in my twenties to a woman I was very attracted to body and mind, sounds corny but it means a lot to me. So that's the question, have or could you be attracted to a guy who shaves his head this young? Or does this put me at a severe disadvantage compared to all the guys with hair and screw over that goal of mine? Would you give a guy who shaved time of day if you just met him or not etc.. I appreciate, and respect honesty here people. Some details to factor in are that I never let it get to me, I dont hide under a hat or anything, I'm 5'10 and a lot of people say it looks good on me and new people I met looked back at pictures and say they prefer this on me.
- Shaved head can be attractive or isn't really an issueVote A
- Couldn't get past it, would put you at a large disadvantageVote B
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First off, you seem like an awesome dude. Hair is hair and people shouldn't base whether they like you or not by it. I once had a crush on someone who shaved their had to the skin and I still thought he was attractive. If they're too busy judging you on your hair they aren't worth your time :)1