We've been dating for almost 6 months. My gf just started university classes a few weeks ago and she's been cold all of a sudden. Normally we'd text a lot, but now she only texts in short responses and it seems like she's been avoiding me. Now I need to initiate the text to get anything from her. I know she is extremely busy with exams and papers, but she'd usually make some time to text. I know that I'm also being super insecure about this, but I'm also worried that I'm losing her.
I've stopped texting her this past couple days. Thoughts?
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Does she live far away/live on campus? If so then I say trust your gut on this one, as the "has time to hang out with her best friend" seems like a major red flag.
But if she's going to a local university, is taking online courses, or lives close to you, then you're probably overreacting. College takes a LOT out of you mentally, and it can get pretty emotionally draining as well. Kudos to you for being understanding, but personally I think you two should talk about the lack of communication from her side.
I got like that too when my classes got really demanding, I didn't even recognize that I was neglecting my relationship until he told me that I was. We worked things out, but really I think that's all you two need. Just talk things out instead of playing games.0
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