I have been seeing this guy for about six months. I met his family too early and things were moving too fast in the beginning. We decided to slow things down about 3 months ago. He goes to church with me, drives for me and he has met my bro and sis. I told him that I don't want to lose him and sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He says he knows I like him. He does everything a girl could ask for and he always make time to see me. Now I should have refrain from saying that I would like to see how things go and whatever hhappens I don't want us to be strangers. He says I am making him feel pressured a little. He hasn't told me he would like us to be exclusive but people who knows or see us together say that we look or act like we are. I don't know how to approach him about it. It's starting to feel awkward and I like the fact that he's dedicated. I don't want him to pull back. I'm trying not to worry about what others think. What do you think?
He does everything a boyfriend does but we are not committed. ... does that make sense to you?
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I was in situations like this and all I can tell you right now is: He won't be the one you'll marry and settle down with. If you want a serious relationship, look for a person who wants the same, no excuses about being pressured. If he loved you, he'd be comfortable with having a committed relationship. Of course, I can't judge the situation only from this short paragraph, but if I were you, I'd simply start distancing myself from him and eventually seeing someone else.0
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