Almost a story like the notebook. Parents and circumstances won't let us be together we waited a year and finally had plans to move out. She got cold feet and I think her parents convinced herm her parents said they would never talk to her again if she chooses me.
She broke things off over the phone and it was so stonecold it didn't sound like her at all. She called me the next day balling and crying say she made A mistake and was lying. Couldn't really comprehend she was so hysterical wasn't making sense. It's been two days now and she hasn't called back. I love this girl so much I don't know what to do.
- Call her win her backVote A
- She will come to you if that's her decisionVote B
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... She got cold feet and I think her parents convinced her...
You have your answer right here, dear, and no matter what she says today and Tomorrow It's--------Two days now and she hasn't called me back-----it's because she is Choosing Them over you and with every move she makes and doesn't make, this is the full circle she will be in and 'Chooses' to be in.
She may have feelings for you, may say one thing today and tomorrow it is something sporadic, because as long as it's blood, it's mom and dad, you will always be second fiddle, second choice and not First 'Choice' on the top of her list... she will put you on her pay no mind list because she is confused.
You can choose to hang in there and fight for her or make up your mind one day that it's a losing battle because the 'Blood on your own hands' is Not theirs... you are a stranger looking in from the outside and she will always pick her parents over you and just anyone until they give their own Green light "It's right."
It's been 'Parents and circumstances' from the very beginning of your beguine and I see nothing but a War of the Roses, down a beaten path from here on in. Unless she grows up and takes hold of her own life, no one can ever take a 'Hold' of hers.
Good luck. xx0