Can a girl ask a guy out without seeming desperate?

I've been talking to this guy for ages now and we've talked about doing things together but we've never set an actual date. I'm getting slightly frustrated by it now and kinda just want to know where I stand. Like is he interested or not. If I ask him out for a specific time and date, does that seem desperate? Or does a girl asking a guy out always seem desperate?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • In my experience, guys like when a girl asks them out. It takes all the pressure off them that they normally have approaching us. Especially in our current society where they are constantly reminded of how many negative responses they will face when a girl they approach inevitably shoots them down.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Yes... do guys always look desperate when we ask you ladies out?

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  • I wouldn't have a problem with it. I suspect most guys wouldn't, either.

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What Girls Said 3

  • You only look desperate if he rejects you. I've been rejected everytime I ask a guy out lol Don't worry, you get over the feeling quickly.

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  • Go for it. You'll either get a date or stay friends. How is that desperate?

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  • Yess I've done it before :)

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