I have been on three really great dates with this awesome guy. How long until I would actually consider us a couple? I know there is not one set number of dates, but from your experience, how long? I guess I also just want to know when I should bring it up to ask him.
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On your next date say" Im just curious, should i be dating other people?" right then, he will give you a reaction. Obviously if he says " sure" or "i dont care, its up to you" its a bad sign but if he says "no" in any way, he wants you two to be exclusive and thats when you have the couple talk. The couple talk could be "well we're only dating eachother and only want eachother so i guess we are a couple now". I went through the same thing, and im so glad i got it out of the way, it was after 3 dates. Typically you have this talk after 3-5 dates, because at this point it should be clear what both of your intentions are.1