So I HATE popular kids and usually won't even give a popular chick a chance, not my crowd of people, so my question is, 1. Is it bad I dont even give them a chance and 2. Anyone else find if a girl/guy is popular its a major turn off?
Popular kids 😒?
What Girls Said 13
While 'popular' people aren't my particular cup of tea (I'm more geeky and poor, and have a hard time with cliques in general) I would never eliminate them as friends. Not everyone fits the stereotype and some of my closest friends have been people well recognized at school and work.
Just try not to associate labels with people. You'll find that once you take away the label they can actually be awesome, sweet and loyal friends and lovers.0
Unless you know each popular kid personally it's sort of unfair to hate them just because they're popular. No matter how popular I guarantee you they ALL have insecurities, especially at teen years. Some kids deal with how they fit in better than other and some do it by being the class clown, or the flirty girl, or the school jock, some the rebels etc...
You don't have to like everyone at school but if you don't know them at least give them a chance, if they prove to be rude or jerks then write them off and avoid them.
Ever see the movie The Breakfast Club? It's an old movie but it has a very good underlining theme; Everyone in highschool has one struggle or another, but due to peer judgment they all hide them to not be noticed or fit in. ;)1
Honestly they probably don't like you either or don't really care. popular people don't care what haters on the outside looking in think1
Popularity is given to them by their "supporters" they didn't ask for it. I would say to look at their characters before u decide whether u want to be friends with them. not all popular kids are stuck up.3
I personally don't like the label "Popular", though people consider me as it. I do hate some of them, but there are many who are actually great friends. So I wouldn't say I hate popular people or that it's a turn-off because it just depends on the actual person and there personality.1
I don't think popular kids exist.. Because beleive it or not, they usually don't think they are cool themselves. People just tend to like them for their personality and looks.1
Popular people aren't as bad as they seem. Most of them are just regular people that get their status because theyre well known by their peers. There are some that think theyre all that but many that are just like everyone else and are worth a chance.0
i used to be really biased against them until i realized it was dumb, as is judging people before getting to know them in general0
usuallly popularars are snob i dont know if wouldn't give them a chance because they might be popular but they might be correct persons and its a turn off if they are snobs.0
To be honest, I see your point but keep in mind some popular people can be really nice. I'm not necessarily popular but I know plenty of popular people and they aren't as mean as you think they are.
Then there are those other kind of popular people, the stuck up idiots who think they know everything 😣. Those type of people drive me insane.
Any way, yeah you should give some of them a chance but keep your real friends closer.0
Yes I think it's bad you don't give them a chance because I used to judge popular kids right away but then I say by the most popular boy in my school in language arts and he was really funny and so fun to hang out with.0
What Guys Said 6
I feel you're overly judgmental of all "popular" people... like they're all the same.
Why the hatred for "popular" people?0
no it's not bad, and yes sometimes they seem to ride some high horse... a turn-off for me as well0
being prejudicial and discriminatory towards them is as bad as what they do to others be the bigger person and be nice to them and everybody if you have been embarrassed, humiliated, ostracized, or discriminated by them in the past again be the bigger person and forgive them for what they did.0
1) No. Although with that attitude, you probably wouldn't even have the option open anyways
I hate you too kid...0
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