I am interested in having a relationship with one guy at a time, but I seem to like two of them at once. One guy I met on POF and he seems really interested and we are on a texting basis right now. He lives an hours' drive away from me. The other guy is on a forum we are both members of but lives halfway across the country. I made my intentions clear just a few minutes ago, well, sort of, and he said I came on too strong. Does that mean he's not at all interested and that I shouldn't persue him anymore? That I should just go with the one I'm interested in and shows interest back?
- Persue the one who is interested!!!Vote A
- Persue the one who isn't showing much interest!!!Vote B
- Try Both!!!Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
I had this same problem with 2 girls... I jus couldn't choose... Rather than seeing whose interested in u... I think a better option would b to go with the one that understands u better and one who listens to ur problems... If both of them r strangers to u then go with the guy that seems interested 1st if things don't work out try the alternative... U don't just get ur life partner at one go... Itz jus like shopping for clothes... Try one if u don't like it try another til u get the one that matches u best0