I'm just wondering. . how many months should a guy or even a women commit? Should a person know whether or not to move on by 6 months? What do you think? It's been six months and he acts like we are in a relationship but he doesn't want to feel pressured. I mean he always make time to see me and take me out to from time to time. He goes to church with me so we are seen together in public. I gave him a hint... I let him know that I don't want to lose him and want to grow together. He said I make him "feel pressured kind of" What would you do if he's putting in effort but doesn't commit in 6 months? Is there something I need to analyze?
Taking a poll... if a guy does not commit in 6 months should you move on?
What Guys Said 5
Sounds like he wants it both ways. Ironically if you move onto someone else he'll probably get jealous. Yet if you don't, you won't feel committed. I do think you should move on though.0
very logical to me... I give six months as well so I say you're doing it right. just don't give him that ultimatum but keep it in your head though0
It depends on many factors.0
I would advise you to stop dreaming and tell him to stop saying your in a relationship.0
What Girls Said 2
In biological terms it takes a guy only 3 months to decide if you're worth marrying or not. They need to make quick decisions in order to produce offspring (the quicker the better) women are programmed to take longer as we need to see what they are like and can back it up with examples of previous behaviours. It takes us about 6 months or so to decide.
6 months is more than enough time for a guy!1
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