I've had a crush on one of my best guy friends for about 3 years, and I haven't really dropped any hints about it or anything since I'm very shy and I don't want to risk our friendship. He talks to me all the time and always smiles and tells jokes when he's around me. However, last night we had a long conversation over text in which he asked me what the best way to ask a girl out was, and then he kept asking me to "roleplay" ("if you were the girl, would you say yes?"). I don't know whether to go for it and tell him that I like him, but then I don't want it to be forever awful and awkward since I see him a few times a week. We don't go to the same school. At the end of our conversation I asked him who his crush was, and he sorta freaked out and said I didn't know her... I'm trying to persuade myself that it really is some girl from his school who I don't know (it probably is) but this thought won't stop nagging at me that he's crushing on me too. Any thoughts? Should I tell him, should I wait to get more information from him, or maybe what are some ways I could hint that I like him?
- Go for it and tell him!Vote A
- Don't tell him, play it safe!Vote B
- Drop subtle hints that you like him!Vote C