I feel silly asking, I admit.
I've been seeing him for over a month but only a couple of weeks since we first kissed. Now it's getting hot and heavy and I told him I wanted to take things slow but I know he's still going to try! Even though he said it's ok. I know he will still try and I can just say no again or not.
I don't know what to do. I want to be physical with him but I don't want to rush things is the problem. I do feel silly making out so heavily with no sexual touching. Obviously we are touching otherwise however.
What do you think? Am I being too careful?
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Take your time. When you're ready you're ready. I'm dating a boy right now, and I'm still young, yes I know, but we've been dating for over a year. We aren't touchy at all, because neither of us is ready, even though many people are pressuring us to do these things. I personally think that's why we're lasting so long. Or one of the reasons. That's just my opinion, but really it's your call. If you're comfortable around him, then go for it and enjoy it. If you aren't ready then don't worry, and take your time.0