well my bf of 3 month doesn't really like when I'm out with friends. he worries I have more fun with them & he just gets sad and moody when I mention going out with one of my guy friends to just catchup
I know he is insecure bc he had told me but just simple reassurance doesn't help him in the long run. & it isn't fair that I let him hang with his girl friend who I don't like and yet he gets insecure when I hang with my guy friends (who I have known longer than my bf and its all totally platonic)
what do I do? it's not too noticeable at the moment to where it causes problems so I can't just casually bring it up but I wonder if I may be doing something to butcher his self esteem more
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... It isn't fair that I let him hang with his girl friend...
I am sure you have heard "What's good for the goose, should be good for the gander" here, dear, and with you Both thinking it's okay to be with 'guy friends' or even a 'girl friend,' is showing me that being you are supposedly In this so-called 'Relationship,' it will go South real quick, go dead in the water, no matter how much 'Longer' you have known your bud or even how much you give your 'Simple reassurance' on your own end.
Two wrongs do not make a right. Nor do they make two birds of a feather who end up sticking together in a love nest. You both need to get on the same stick to page as to what compromise you can come to Or... I promise you that before you can count Jack Rabbits, this will end up going down a beaten bunny path and end up to be a War of the Roses.
Good luck. xx1