One example and elaborate please?
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Wouldn't be anything associated with strength or machismo.
A guy seems 'manly' or to embody masculinity to me when he is actually able to remain calm and clear-headed in a situation that would throw others off their rockers and lose their cool.
That could be in anything. Like if they're having a heated discussion with their girlfriend, where she says some things that are super out of line. Regardless of what the girl said leaving her looking ridiculous and a bit cray, he's able to keep it together and 'weather the storm'.
That cray girl may have been me. Shortly after I said it and felt incredibly stupid, I thought it was incredibly sexy how my guy was able to keep his calm when it would have been completely appropriate that eh loses it.
In my eyes, when a guy can pull things like that off, that's real 'manliness'.
None of that huge arms/muscle-tanks stuff, please.