So when you rebound someone and convince them to love you, and you lie and tell them you love them too. But then you lie even more about your ex, and swear the ex is nothing to you, but end up cheating on them and leaving them for the ex, and say its all their fault. But they loved you. And not only that, but after the cheating, you beg for the rebound back, get him back, treat him like shit again, and leave for the old boyfriend AGAIN. But the poor reboundee was so blinded by love, he just wanted to love the girl..
But the rebounder just goes back with the old boyfriend and lives happily ever after while the reboundee is left in the dust with a broken heart, and misses the rebounder.
Does the rebounder always win? I wish i believed in karma, but i see a lot of evil people in this world doing very well for themselves, after causing others so much hurt. Its pathetic to me that the good people of this world do good, and love people, but get hurt the most. But the users and the manipulators seem to get the gold each time..
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hmmm... :( I know how you mean. Um I had rebounded before, but I had not cheated.. and I did not realize that I rebounded until after the harm has been done, because in times, it feels as if you have moved on from your ex boyfriend, and that you really have fallen in love with the other person. And then your ex boyfriend comes back for you, and you feel that old sparkling love again for them, and you are compelled. In times it does not mean that people are evil, it means that their ex boyfriend perhaps is their Achilles heel. This is from my experience, it was terrible, and I am only now moving forward from my ex boyfriend, because I loved him with everything I had. He was my first... except he was not so nice for me.
I do also know how you mean when you say that the people who love the most, get hurt the most, because I feel that very much. I hurt, because I am sensitive, and when I love somebody, I love them with my whole entire heart, and I cut myself completely open. That is relationship wise.