I went on a dating website and met a few guys. Some like want to meet right a way which is great. But a few seem to be putting it off... they prefer speaking with me first on the phone Why is that? Can you tell if you are attracted to and compatible with someone via phone conversation not meeting them first?
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online dating sucks. i have the same problem with girls. literally just yesterday there was this chick i met online who refused to speak to me on the phone, only wanted to text me, and was terrified she might sound awkward. i was like i'm not going to judge you if its awkward, i'm only going to judge you if you don't care enough to try. i tried calling her and she freaked out saying she felt like she was always saying the wrong thing. i told her i'm not responsible for her fears, SHE is, and i'm really not interested in putting up with the irrational bullshit that goes on inside her head so she can either call me now or go away. then today i get a text from her uncle saying he's gonna report me for cyber crime claiming he has proof i asked her to send nudes which never happened and he's just making shit up. he's currently harassing me on the phone daring me to file a police report because i said if he really wants to press the issue i'll file one myself for trying to scam and threaten me. i really don't want to text this guy back cause he's texting me from some weird indian number and it costs me 25¢ each text... but he keeps on antagonizing me just being a dick about it.
another chick i met gave me her number and said she was going to suck whipped cream off my cock only to later tell me she was married. this is the kind of shit that happens to me in just 24 hours of online dating. i know i'm not the only one. obviously the internet is so full of catfish, liars, antagonists and trolls no one can trust anyone anymore. and i trust it anyway and put myself out there just cause i don't have time to waste on some stupid games women play but it always seems to screw me somehow. I could see why guys would want to at least hear your voice before they meet up in some back alley somewhere and get their wallet and kidney stolen or something2