I have never dated or had relationship with a girl above friendship I never kissed a girl, but I'm not trying to complain I think I'm on the right track I look good and I'm happy, I think it will happen when happens. So I'm just being chill about it, but I have so much curiosity about it everywhere I go there is a love song playing or people dating. I don't have time for a girlfriend I have a lot of important things to do and on my free time I don't want to deal with a girls crazy bullshit. But No matter what I do I can't stop wondering about and wanting girls I seem more obsessed with girls than most of my guy friends. Is this what addiction looks like because I feel like I'm thinking about more and more it get harder to ignore all of my thoughts are centered around girls in some way and it wasn't like this before.
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There's nothing wrong with you at all.. you've got life and priorities and direction. So keep working towards your goals and ambitions.. trust me, women find that attractive.
But I will comment on a few things you've said. I have some experience with women so trust me when I say this...
1) Assuming women are crazy, or have bullshit, is what's called "pre judging" them... it's also called prejudice. It's gross. Just because some women are crazy doesn't mean they all are, that's just ignorant.
This could likely be why you've had a lack of success with women up until now. It's like assuming the local swimming pool is poison... of course you're not going to jump in. But pay attention.. if there are many happy people swilling then the water is just fine.
If others complain that the water tastes bad, or have had trouble swimming, that doesn't mean you will. It just means they're poor swimmers.
2) Of course you're wondering about women... it's built into our DNA to hook up, and fall in love, and chase ass. So don't look at your lustful thoughts as bad, or negative or weird. It's pretty normal.
3) If something is on your mind the healthiest way to clear it from your thoughts is to address it through taking action. When we take action we feel better automatically, even if the action we take is wrong. Making mistakes leads us in the right direction.
Doing nothing leaves us feeling weak and sad.
So my advice is to do a little online reading about women and dating, if you're really unfamiliar, then go out and practice your social skills (making small talk with strangers of all sizes and sexes, in order to get comfortable with it) and finally make it part of your weekly "to do" list... meeting women.
There's few things in life that make an after work dinner as exciting as after work dating, sex, and love.
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