I often think of myself as this great guy who will change the life of whoever I'm with. But even more that's what I want to be. I even usually seek out dating those who I feel could benefit from having me in their life. Is this wrong am I being arrogant or cocky. I genuinely want to make someone happy does that justify my thoughts that I'm this great person. Girls say they want confidence is that what they mean?
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I don't think it arrogant to want to be the best boyfriend/friend/husband/lover you can be.. I actually think it's great... but if you set out on this journey to change someone to who you think they should be, or seek them as if this is a science project then yes you are a bit arrogant... 60% of a relationship will be accepting the person for who they are... but if ur talking about upgrading their life financially, introducing them to finer things... then by all means... good luck!0