This is an ongoing argument in my house right now. I feel that I would not be able to have sex with someone for that long at not have SOME kind of feelings for her while others here have no problem with that at all.
How do you feel about this?
I'm NOT talking about one night stands. I'm talking about calling/text this same girl 2-3 times a week, asking her how she's doing, her doing stuff for you, stuff like that.
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yeah i wouldn't be able to put up with that shit. i mean i probably wouldn't be after a 1 night stand to begin with but once i realized that the sex was the good part and even that wasn't worth being friends with someone so obnoxious... well part of what makes the sex good is if you actually like the person so even thats gonna suck or at least be meh. i've been there, i think we've all been there, you're hitting on a girl cause you need a warm place to put your meat and then she opens her mouth and you remember how much you can't stand this girl and you're just like, i can't with you anymore. but of course you never say that to her face cause she'll throw a hissy fit so you just gradually drift apart and become the kind of weird sex aquaintences that you end up running into months down the line, and secretly kind of resent resent but are like, oh, hows the job, you got a new dog, oh thats nice. small talking her like you met her at work trying to pretend you didn't have your cock sandwiched between her at some point1