I've tried everything to get a girls interested in me and nothing is working. I've bought every program, read every blog, changed who I am, and still nothing is working. Every girl I talk to, "even when I'm just saying hi or asking a question at work" seem completely turned off by me and now more and more I running into girls that seem afraid of me. I'm friendly and I smile. I don't hit an ever girl I see and I've been told that I'm a good person.
I'm not turning gay or anything, and I'm not feeling sorry for my self. I just reached a point where I'm tired of failing at attracting and interacting with women. So I'll just treat this as a life failure and spending the time I taking trying to learn women and use it to volunteer more and have a positive inpact on someone's life. That should make up for sucking at women...
What are your thoughts in this?
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You look like a great looking guy from your picture and sound really nice and caring. Maybe you are trying too hard. My friends and I always found that when you stop looking (give up on guys and just go out to have fun) is when you meet someone special. It's like guys (and probably girls) can sense neediness and they run a mile. Yes, try giving up on it for a while - when you can honestly say you don't care if you find someone because you are happy with yourself seems to increase attractiveness... I think maybe because we all want something we don't think we could have - or maybe it is because we are afraid of someone falling for us quicker than we fall for them. All the best!1