One of my friends just started going out with a black guy and they seem to get along fine and we where talking about..How they meet etc...And within the conversation she reviled to me that she only started dating him...Because he was black,that was her only reason for saying yes when he asked her out. Other then that No attraction, Nothing in common (well besides the fact they go to same school) Nada...Don't get me wrong I'm all for interracial relationships (I've been in a couple myself) but just dating someone because their Black, Latino, Asian...ect. Instead of basing it on attraction, compatibility, and things in common that just seems a little racist to me.
What do you think? Be honest
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It is racial in a sense but its not negative stereotyping.. but I hear some people say that racial stereotyping either it be negative or positive is looked down upon.. but you know what.. you gotta take the good with the bad. If she is dating him just because he is black, then she got what she is looking for.. at least for the time being.. maybe it will end up with them having a truly meaningful relationship but it will have been based on the wrong things.
For me, I don't look at race when I meet a girl, because if I just think "oh I'm not gonna date her because she is this or I am gonna date her because she is that".. that's kind of close-minded.. so, I try to base relationships on common things like normal people.. lol like common topics and interests.2