This guy asked me to lunch this weekend, and I said yes bc I thought it was a friendly thing. However it dawned on me it was a date when he suggested all these fancy restaurants & asked when he could pick me up. I'm NOT attracted to him at all (plus I heard he has a thing for Asian girls which creeps me out a bit). I texted him that I just wanted to clarify that this was friendly hangout b/c I wasn't looking to date anyone as I was super busy with school and stuff. He texted back, "Yes it was a date and in that case we shouldn't meet at all." I was a little hurt b/c I thought we were friends at least (we've hung out a couple times in groups & talk on FB chat once in awhile). Was I too harsh in telling him it wasn't a date?
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Well, its better than what happened to me. Went on the date first, found out i really liked her, then was told that she didn't want a boyfriend. You did whats best, im sure he would rather know before he actually goes on what he thinks is a date with you.0